Question: I’ve been wanting to lean about my body and hoping to get my hands on a sex toy but I’m too embarrassed to go shopping for one and I don’t want to get one when I don’t know what I like or need. What can you suggest from around the house that I could [...]

Question: First I just want to say that I love your youtube videos, they are so informational. I would appreciate if you could help me with a dilemma. I recently saw a picture of my boyfriend on a website that I would consider to be a gay site. It’s primarily for people who are attracted [...]

Question: I got into a relationship almost a year ago (I’m now 18) and I just realized that I have a really big naughty side to me and am starting to show it. I don’t know why but just texting can sometimes get me excited and arouse me. He likes it and so do I, [...]

Question: Hi Kara, I just wanted to say that I love your videos and the new website! I have a question of my own that I don’t see anywhere so I figured I’d just send it in a message. My boyfriend and I have had sex before, we always use condoms but sometimes I get [...]

The best advice I can give when it comes to your feelings of inadequacy is to let you know that as long as you are able to please her orally or by manual stimulation (fingering) then you haven’t too much to worry about. Keep in mind that majority of women (around 70%) get off from clitoral stimulation, not from penetration. That’s why I always say it’s not your dick that’s the source of your power. Funnily enough, judging from the letters I receive from many females the majority of men don’t know what to do with their “normal” sized dicks anyways…or fingers, or mouth for that matter.

Heya! I just watched a few of your videos and in the “Peer Pressure” one you were talking about running out of condoms. I’d like to have your opinion: why choose condoms over pills, shots and all the other things out there? Thanks in advance! Answer There are many reasons I always stress the use [...]

Hi Kara_Sutra I’m a long time fan of yours and I’ve watched all of your videos. I was hoping you could answer some questions I had about masturbation because I have no clue what to think or if there are health ramifications. Plus I’ve always been told that its bad so I’ve never done it [...]

As for the question I just wanted to let you know that there is nothing wrong with strap on or domination play and you are completely “normal”. In a world where sex and intimacy are becoming more mainstream and acceptable, so too are “new” forms of sexual expression and experimentation.

Since some of the more commonly asked questions I get have always been from those that are new to sexuality, sex and exploring their sexual selves, I figured it was time I answered in video format.

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For all of my viewers who have sent me questions regarding this subject I thought I would finally answer it in video format so that there is no confusion.

A video and written article dispelling the myth that oral sex can cause pregnancy.

what you are facing is unfortunately very, VERY, common among women. There is nothing wrong with you and it’s not something that is anyones fault. Before I offer any suggestions lets see if maybe we can find the reasons behind why you may not be able to orgasm.

A quick video for all the ladies who have messaged me about their “partner’s” premature ejaculation or loss of erection and wanted some advice to make things easier for him.

In regard to the threesome question, personally I think that is a conversation you need to have with your partner. It is very common for couples to want to experiment or toy with this idea, however though it can be fun in the moment, if not handled properly the after effects can be very damaging.

As for the issue your dealing with…unless you know for a fact 100% that she lied to you about her virginity you shouldn’t assume that she did. Just because she didn’t bleed, there was no pain or obstruction or because she wont let you look at her “down there”, that doesn’t mean that she isn’t a virgin.